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✔ OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
✔ Recovering Anorexic
✔ Depression-Anxiety

Welcome to my vent / recovery / and general serious topic blog. ♥ If you don't like it, get lost.

I am not pro-eating disorder, or pro-self harm.
If you need someone to talk to or vent to, feel free to message me and I'll try my best to help you. ♥


jackryanz:

arccannine:

jackryanz:

did anyone else have that fad in their middle school where people would lick elbows and see if the person being licked noticed and they usually never did that was fucked up

what sort of place did you go to

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— 6 hours ago with 2478 notes

misandry-mermaid:

imintheskywithpie:

solely-opinionated:

squeaksquawk:

jokes about Dylan Sprouse’s nudes make me uncomfortable b/c women get their lives and careers ruined or tainted if something like this comes out but dylan gets commended for “handling it well”

Give me one actual example of a woman’s life getting ruined due to leaked nude photos. I’m waiting.

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that took about 3 seconds to find on google

Reblogging this because I just noticed the not-so-subtle was that language in the title of this article is used to blame the victim.

"Teenager commits suicide after ‘sexting’ nude photo to her boyfriend made her life a misery"

The title implies that it was ACT of sending the photo that caused her the misery, that it was HER fault.  The sentence structure puts the blame on her, ignoring the fact that it was the vicious, misogynistic, bullying harassment she was a victim of after the photo was leaked by her boyfriend that pushed her over the edge and to suicide.

— 7 hours ago with 92576 notes

heartatwork:

lonelyy-depressed-girl:

if I offered you $20, would you take it?

How about if I crumpled it up?

Stepped on it?

you would probably take it even though it was crumpled and stepped on it. Do you know why?

Because it is still $20, and its worth has not changed.

The same goes for you; if you have a bad day, or if something bad happens to you, you are not worthless.

if someone crumples you up or steps on you, your worth does not change. You are still just as valuable as you were before.

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— 7 hours ago with 158439 notes

groans:

kids0ftheblackhole:

good

i like this story because a cop was shot but nobody will get in trouble for shooting the cop and some children got to calmly play with a dog

(Source: rawstory.com, via history1970s)

— 7 hours ago with 53796 notes

penandpage:

itssexualhour:

so my boyfriend and I tried roleplaying the other day and we did the whole “professor and bad student who needs to pass” thing, only he wanted to be the professor, so I had to be the horny and failing student. I’m the valedictorian of my senior class of 400 and I have a horrible phobia of flunking, so when he whispered “you’re failing my class, you naughty girl” in my ear, I started crying and we had to stop

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— 11 hours ago with 144907 notes

shortandsweet:

Surprisingly, perfectionists are often procrastinators, as they can tend to think “I don’t have the right skills or resources to do this perfectly now, so I won’t do it at all.”

this is an important thing to remember.

(Source: myeyesarehazel, via owlbirdy)

— 12 hours ago with 517025 notes

pignite:

rivaille-is-spoopy:

jqg:

reiner being motivational

what a great guy

reiner for president

he will break down the walls that separate our society

(Source: jqg, via heichouachoo)

— 13 hours ago with 57127 notes
"They don’t “accidentally” rape women. They don’t “misread the signals”. Every day, men who pretend that they are incapable of telling that women don’t want them to penetrate their bodies, read hundreds of social signals expertly. They know when to joke about with the boss; when to back down gracefully in a meeting without losing face; when to negotiate hard and when to keep some back for the next deal; they know when to banter with their colleagues and when to be professional. They know when to slap down someone in a pub or a club or on a train and when that would be dangerous – most men, like most women, are very, very good at negotiating social signals."
— 13 hours ago with 3543 notes

rochellek1994:

frenchie-fries:

vergess:

boltonsrepairshop:

PSA - PLEASE READ AND SPREAD HE WORD!!!

IF YOU SEE THIS PLANT AT ALL, DO NOT TOUCH IT!!!

Giant hogweed (Heracleum mantegazzianum) is an invasive herb in the carrot family which was originally brought to North America from Asia and has since become established in the New England, Mid-Atlantic, and Northwest regions of the United States. Giant hogweed grows along streams and rivers and in fields, forests, yards and roadsides, and a giant hogweed plant can reach 14 feet or more in height with compound leaves up to 5 feet in width.

Giant Hogweed sap contains toxic chemicals known as Furanocoumarins. When these chemicals come into contact with the skin and are exposed to sunlight, they cause a condition called Phytophotodermatitis, a reddening of the skin often followed by severe blistering and burns. These injuries can last for several months, and even after they have subsided the affected areas of skin can remain sensitive to light for years. Furanocoumarins are also carcinogenic and teratogenic, meaning they can cause cancer and birth defects. The sap can also cause temporary (or even permanent) blindness if introduced into the eyes.

If someone comes into physical contact with Giant Hogweed, the following steps should be taken:
  • Wash the affected area thoroughly with soap and COLD water as soon as possible.
  • Keep the exposed area away from sunlight for 48 hours.
  • If Hogweed sap gets into the eyes, rinse them with water and wear sunglasses.
  • See a doctor if any sign of reaction sets in.
If a reaction occurs, the early application of topical steroids may lessen the severity of the reaction and ease the discomfort. The affected area of skin may remain sensitive to sunlight for a few years, so applying sun block and keeping the affected area shielded from the sun whenever possible are sensible precautions
PLEASE, DO NOT JUST READ AND SCROLL! THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AND POTENTIALLY LIFE-SAVING INFORMATION!!!

Extra note: if you live in Oregon, New Jersey, Michigan or New York and see one of these, call your state’s department of agriculture to report it, and trained professionals will come kill it before it can produce seeds and spread.

Frankly, if you see one in general, probably call your DOA and see if there’s a program in place.

Do not burn it, because the smoke will give you the same reaction.

If for some ungodly reason there isn’t a professional who can handle it for you (and please, please use a professional), the DOA of New York has [this guide] for how to deal with it yourself.

OH MY FUCK I HAVE THESE IN MY BACKYARD.

I don’t think that I have seen this in the UK but this will sure help me for my horticulture course in future, thank you!

~Rochelle

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— 13 hours ago with 31650 notes

gemfuck:

jim—moriarty:

wow i’m posting these sort of late

so i went to the steven universe panel at wondercon friday morning and i got to meet both rebecca sugar and zach callison! they both said they liked my costume and later when we were walking around steven sugar stopped and asked if he could take a picture of me and basically the whole day was great okay i got to meet some of my favorite people in the whole world :))

— 14 hours ago with 367 notes